Horse wrote:'hinting'
I talked their daughter through hinting too. She picked it up, with the early obs stuff, almost instant better driving.
I generally think if you can help someone feel something different then
that sticks longest, but much of advanced is about looking in the right place to see things of potentially greater significance, thinking about what you've seen, and deciding what to do with it. All that is more difficult, harder to learn (especially for a novice already overwhelmed with what they need in order to pass the test), harder to make second nature, and more easily consigned to something a person can or could do rather than something they do do.
As Strangely Brown has been saying, the desire to learn is something that has to come from within, and probably it's not something that can be 'sold' to a person. My view is that it's best presented in aspirational terms; there might be multiple ways in which people could be hooked, raising various ideas / ideals / points to find the one they hadn't realised they actually want. It also requires that they are in the position to be able consider and try new ideas, which generally only happens after they have sufficient experience, and possibly a few knocks, along the way.
For me it was that I wanted to drive better. I didn't know what that meant, but that's what I wanted. I didn't know how to find what would satisfy that desire and it was only happenstance that got me started. And then a second unlikely situation that really got me moving.
When I took part in the ADUK and ADHub driving days, I tried to make it fun for everyone I met. Didn't always work, one notable exception in particular when I hadn't understood that a person probably liked cars more than driving and, while they owned a powerful car, they weren't much interested in using its performance. But, in general, I figured if a person had fun and, maybe, felt they'd learned something, they'd be back for more. I've tried to do the same with the associates who've been unfortunate enough to be pointed my way; so much easier getting points across if they've been hoodwinked into thinking they're having fun ...
there is only the road, nothing but the road ...