Silk wrote:akirk wrote:TripleS wrote:...and what matters is how we feel and behave towards it, and indeed how members of the LGBT community behave too.
I think that what matters most is how we behave towards each other - one sign of maturity is the ability to hold different views but still respect each other a) as people and b) to respect their right to hold their own views - sadly we don't always see it in society... but we do seem to on here...
My problem with all of this is not how tolerant or otherwise we are of others but the engineering of a false tolerance by the "equality and diversity" industry. If things were allowed to follow their course naturally, we could have a bit of a laugh, get it out of our system and move on. Being forced to think a certain way just leads to resentment.
Tolerance and or respect doesn't mean agreement - and tolerance and respect is two-way, and there is a difference between respecting a person and their views... part of a free society is that I can disagree (or even stronger, not respect) someone's views - but it need not be personal, I can still respect the person... I can think of examples of people where I would really strongly disagree with their views, but still respect their integrity and honesty in holding the view consistently - even if I think them wrong!
The biggest issue we have had in society has been to conflate person and view - the two are not the same...
Alasdair